ADHD

The biggest struggle in my life that I found in any type of friendship or relationship I have is finding someone that bothers to understand who I am. Someone that doesn’t think that I am making things up and that ADHD is something that I can control, I can but to an extent. 

I’m not making excuses for my behavior, but I’m trying to get the people in my life to try and understand some of the things I do and say and why I say them. 

I’ve always felt like I never fit in or belonged anywhere. I always felt like I was misunderstood and that those close to me would eventually go away because they couldn’t understand or try to understand me.

I’m not gonna bore you with the details of my life. But I am going to tell you to try and understand ADHD and the symptoms of ADHD.  Uncontrollable comments, sometimes we say things that we didn’t really mean to say, overthinking, we’re critical over ourselves, we’re also insecure and we are confident.  We feel peoples energy on a whole other level and we know when someone’s not being real with us, we don’t like people talking down to us and telling us we do stupid stuff or childish and selfish. ADHD is far from it.  

My point to this, I guess the people that really matter in your life will try and understand you and learn about who you are before judging you.